If you thought going through escorts ads and paying for sex in Australia was something only a select few people do, think again. According to the results of a recent survey, almost 16% of Australians have paid for sex at least once in their lifetime. 97% of those who said they had paid for sex sought the services of women, while 3% said that they had paid for sex with men.
Unsurprisingly, the overwhelming majority of people paying for sex in Australia are male – no fewer than 99.9%.
Of course, this isn’t a patch on the popularity of the ‘adult entertainment’ industries of some of the world’s more notorious regions. In Cambodia, for example, up to 80% of people say they have paid for sex at least once. Cambodian men are often married and have at least a couple of girlfriends on the side, while regular visits to brothels are more or less a way of life.
While you cannot realistically compare Australia to Cambodia in this context, the popularity of escort services has been growing here for some time. More escort ads are appearing online and elsewhere than ever before, as more men take advantage of what’s on offer.
But what is it about escort ads and escorts services in general that hold such widespread appeal? Why is it that more Australian men are seeking the services of escorts, and in most cases taking genuine pride in doing so?
The Appeal of Escorts Ads: In Their Own Words
As with most things, you have to go directly to the source to access the most useful and reliable information. In this case, those who publish the Escort Ads and/or work for established online agencies.
When quizzed on what attracts men to sex workers in Australia, the escorts interviewed cited the same motivating factors in most instances. Some of which go beyond the obvious appeal of no-nonsense sexual gratification, which understandably remains a priority for many.
Here are the main reasons more Australian men are seeking the services of escorts than ever before:
1. Dissatisfaction with Their Partner
For a lot of men, it’s simply a case of being dissatisfied with their current partner…and clearly lacking the balls to do anything about it. Realistically, the thing to do with a partner you are not happy with is a) work on improving things or b) get rid of them. Of course, the third option is to simply put up with and seek satisfaction from elsewhere – precisely what millions of men are doing!
If there’s something you need your partner simply cannot offer, there’s a good chance it’s on the menu with a professional escort. All in a 100% guilt-free, no strings attached format you can return back to your normal life from right after.
2. Not Having a Partner
It likely comes as no surprise to learn that the biggest of all demographics searching for escorts ads are single men. Men who do not have wives or girlfriends may find themselves with no realistic sexual outlet, other than to pay for the services of escorts.
Professional escorts offer a wide range of services that go beyond the obvious, and in most cases what it´s included or not in the service is specified upfront in the escort ads. Companionship, the conversation, entertainment, epic nights out on the town – it’s not exclusively about what takes place between the sheets. This can be particularly appealing for men who lack companionship in their everyday lives, who may turn to escorts out of sheer boredom or loneliness.
3. Acting Out Fantasies
When you think about it, there are probably things you’d love to try out with your partner, though wouldn’t dare suggest in a million years. We won’t go into detail with the kinds of things we mean – feel free to use your imagination!
One of the most appealing aspects of escort services is the way in which you have the opportunity to fulfil fantasies you’d otherwise never get to experience. You enjoy healthy and satisfying relationships in your normal life, saving the weird and wacky stuff for those who know how to do it best.
4. Because traditional dating sucks
Last but not least, more men than ever before are becoming completely jaded with the conventional approach to dating. Overpriced bars, sweaty nightclubs and all the usual meat-markets crammed with sketchy stereotypes – not the preferred way for millennials to kill time.
With professional escorts, you can spend your time and money doing exactly what you like, when and where you like and with who you like. You can skip the crap associated with dating and dive straight into the good stuff. All with the opportunity of playing the field to your heart’s content, without a shred of guilt involved.
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