Dr. Jose Narciso Melchor Sescon – president of the AIDS Society of the Philippines and current Chief of Clinics of Sta. Ana Hospital – answers all your HIV-related inquiries. For all your questions, email email@example.com or firstname.lastname@example.org.
My BF is positive, and I am negative. He is a top, and I am a bottom. One time, we had sex, but the condom broke. We stopped immediately. I worry nonetheless. What do we do? I heard about PrEP, but how do I avail of these, so that maybe my BF can take it?
Serodiscordant couples/partners (that is, one HIV positive and the other is HIV negative) are reminded and advised at all times to practice safer sex. To be more exact, this is to avoid exchange of body fluids so as to protect one another. Safer sex practices would mean non-exchange of body fluids, the use of protectives such as dental dams (for oral sex) or, the more convenient, the correct use of condoms. Consistent condom usage is prescribed to minimize risk of HIV transmission, as we know for a fact that there is no such thing as “full” protection. As such, it really matters how you use condoms, what lubes you used, what type of sexual activity was exercised, and if condoms are not freshly bought, how condoms were stored prior to its usage, and so on.
Well, if condoms broke, it is best to stop the activity, withdraw from the insertion and wipe secretions. Should the couples decide to continue with the act, replacement of condoms is a must, using the right technique (squeeze the tip of the condom tip as one unrolls it down to the base of the shaft of the penis). Use water-based lubricants (only) if there is a need to lubricate to make the sexual activity more pleasant and comfortable.
Now for the PrEP, otherwise known as “pre-exposure prophylaxis” (and PEP, also known as “post-exposure prophylaxis”) from a known HIV infected individual. In the Philippines this is not yet available, but in developed countries like the USA, the FDA already approved a drug known as Truvada (Tenofovir/Emitricitabine combination) for purpose of PREVENTING HIV-1 infection; this is best combined with safer sex practices (use of condoms)
Furthermore, Truvada is also used as treatment in combination with other antiretroviral meds (ARVs). Unfortunately, in the Philippines, this cannot be sourced out through prescriptions at the local drug stores. There are notably few available antiretroviral drugs used by HIV Treatment hubs in the Philippines, and these are made accessible based on the 2010 Philippines National Guidelines on ARV use in the country.