This is part of #KaraniwangLGBT, which Outrage Magazine officially launched on July 26, 2015 to offer vignettes of LGBT people/living, particularly in the Philippines, to give so-called “everyday people” – in this case, the common LGBT people – that chance to share their stories.
As Outrage Magazine editor Michael David C. Tan says: “All our stories are valid – not just the stories of the ‘big shots’. And it’s high time we start telling all our stories.”
When she was 14, Vien realized that she was “no ordinary beki (gay).”
“Before I turned 14, estudyanteng beki lang ako (I was just another gay student),” she recalled. But then she realized, “iba talaga ang experiences ko; hindi maipapaliwanag ng pagiging beki (my lived experiences were not similar to being gay).”
It was at that point that she realized she’s transgender.
With this realization, Vien is not only happier, but also feels more empowered.
This is particularly important for her since she has relatives and even so-called friends who remain not accepting of her, refusing to recognize Vien’s self-identity. For them, Vien is just “another beki“.
Vien wants to make something of herself, religiously going to school, even as she also helps out – usually taking the graveyard shift – in running the family-owned karinderya (eatery) in Makati City. It isn’t easy missing out on getting proper sleep every night, Vien said, but it is something she has to do to continue being sent to school.
While serving customers, Vien – now 20 years old – is always all-smile.
“I remain upbeat,” she said. “Ito ako. Tanggap ko ako, Bahala na ang iba (This is me. I accept myself. I don’t care what others think).”