A brand-new survey conducted by Kaufmich.com, a social networking platform for sex workers and clients, has now been released and it shows us exactly how escorts spend their Christmases – including the crazy festive requests they receive.
From being asked to eat gingerbread so their scat tastes like it (yes, really) to having sex on a balcony above a Christmas market, seasonal international dates, and more, these findings are something to behold…
Kaufmich’s key findings include:
- 26.7% of escorts see between 5 and 10 clients at Christmas.
- 6.2% of escorts see over 15 clients at Christmas.
- 11.1% of escorts go on international escorting dates over the holidays.
- 13.6% of escorts say their services have previously been bought as a gift for someone else.
Meanwhile, respondents shared their personal Christmas date stories, and they did not hold back:
Holly*: “An older gentleman once told me that I was the only person he had spoken to in a week. His family had passed away, and we had dinner together, a lovely evening. It meant a lot to me, and I made sure he had a beautiful Christmas.”
Chloe*: “He came dressed as Santa Clause and brought me a gift.”
Jodie*: “Two years ago, I had a date with a client on Christmas Eve morning; he wanted me to wear Christmas lingerie, which I did. When he arrived, he gave me a small Santa Claus bag as a gift, and we enjoyed a wonderfully festive few hours together.”
Molly*: “My most beautiful international date was a trip to Austria, in the most beautiful Christmas room – we had sex in front of the fireplace.”
Annie*: “My client and I once fucked on the balcony next to a Christmas market.”
Meanwhile, escorts shared some of the fetish requests they’ve received at Christmas time:
Grace*: “Apparently, scat is supposed to taste more Christmassy when you eat gingerbread, so my client asked me to regularly eat gingerbread.”
Tiah*: “One of my clients asks me to use a dildo strap-on and feminize him in a sexy Christmas costume that he chooses.”
Olivia*: “One of my clients once asked that, as a Christmas gift to him, I let him intensely lick me for four hours. I did.”
According to Melissa Mayr, Kaufmich’s brand manager: “We always see interest in escorting services soar over Christmas, whether that’s people booking services for themselves or a loved one. Meanwhile, so many of the requests follow a festive theme! People have kinks for Santa Claus, Mrs Claus, The Grinch – honestly, pretty much everything.”
Mayr noted that clients are also very generous at Christmas and often buy escorts gifts, particularly those they have long-standing relationships with. “I always love hearing these crazy Christmas stories, they show how adventurous we’ve become sexually and how much our users enjoy the holiday season.”
Nonetheless, although some customers book festive dates at Christmas, the biggest peak in bookings happen in the New Year, when “lots of clients are tied up with family commitments over the holidays and they look to escorts as a form of stress release when that’s all over,” Mayr said.
Also, Christmas isn’t always all fun and games for escorts since these are normal people and many have families of their own. So, balancing a hectic work schedule with family life can be challenging.
They explained how they maintain a work/life balance this time of year:
Yasmine*: ‘During the week, I work, and on the weekends it’s my family’s turn.’
Beth*: ‘It’s all a matter of organization; I don’t have any problems here. Just stay on top of your diary and revel in the busy period!’
India*: ‘I prefer my professional life because I have almost no family life, so if it wasn’t for work, I’d be alone at Christmas. That’s what people don’t understand, escorting helps our clients feel connected and us too. It’s an intimate in more ways than one and nobody should be alone at Christmas.’
Mayr noted that people forget they have personal lives, often basing their assumptions on stereotypes instead. “Christmas is a wonderfully busy time for our escorts, but many of them have families, other jobs/hobbies, volunteering schedules, and more.”
Christmas in the escorting world is a big deal. Clients with festive desires are still willing to pay for international dates and seasonal kinks become a hot topic – it’s a way to celebrate like no other.
