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One week: The second day

What is it like to be triggered by everything after one loses someone? It’s like being punched in the gut… continuosly.

Original image by Harsh Gupta from Unsplash.com

This is part of a series of articles attempting to describe, enter, portray, and hopefully understand the psyche of someone waiting for answers, and outcomes of the unknown. Some days will be long, some days will be shorter than usual, some days will be too devastating… all reflected in the articles.

“‘I am missing your playfulness’ was the first thing I read when I woke up on the second day,” Pierce shared. To which he replied with “I am missing it, too.”

He smiled after he sent his reply. That was his first smile in almost two days.

The continuous thoughts, feelings, and fears were still in his mind – all slowing sinking deeper.

Pierce was starting to be triggered by things that remind him of everything.

Every time he scrolled through the messages and photos in his phone, listened to Spotify, walked pass familiar places, his tears would fall. And it was only the second day.

Like how he expected it, time was very, very slow. Things were moving at a glacial pace. No matter how hard he tried to keep himself preoccupied, blank thoughts and empty moments would take over.

“I wanted to drink a glass or two of Moscato to cap the night off, but a part of me stopped it and just let the emotions and feelings come in and dwell,” Pierce narrated.

What is really happening? What will happen tomorrow? What will he feel and think in the coming days?

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It was a punch to the gut. It was emotional torture. It was mentally draining. It. Was. Difficult.

Living life a day at a time – and writing about it, is what Patrick King believes in. A media man, he does not only write (for print) and produce (for a credible show of a local giant network), but – on occasion – goes behind the camera for pride-worthy shots (hey, he helped make Bahaghari Center’s "I dare to care about equality" campaign happen!). He is the senior associate editor of OutrageMag, with his column, "Suspension of Disbelief", covering anything and everything. Whoever said business and pleasure couldn’t mix (that is, partying and working) has yet to meet Patrick King, that’s for sure! Patrick.King.Pascual@outragemag.com

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