There is something really powerful about hitting the open road. You get to explore in your own way in your own time, and it gives you more freedom than pretty much anything else you can think of.
For queer travelers, that freedom can feel especially meaningful. At the same time, thoughtful planning helps ensure the journey feels safe, welcoming, and genuinely fun, and that being the case, below we are going to look at some practical tips to help you plan a road trip that feels affirming but also stress-free…
Research destinations in advance
As a queer traveler, it is a really good idea to research where you plan to go in advance because, sadly, not every area offers the same level of inclusivity. Before finalizing your route, spend a little time researching towns and cities along the way. Look for LGBTQ friendly neighborhoods, businesses, and events as a starting point.
Travel forums, community groups, and review sites can provide helpful insights. Larger cities often have visible queer communities, but smaller towns may also have welcoming spaces if you know where to look so do not dismiss them because they are often home to some of the more interesting attractions.
A bit of research can go a long way in helping you feel comfortable wherever you stop.
Choose accommodation carefully
Where you stay on a road trip can really shape your experience, so you need to make the right choice. The good news is, there are lots of hotels that openly promote inclusive policies that you can choose from. That being said, it is still worth checking reviews from other queer travelers.
RV parks are often good places to stop for a day or so when you’re on the road, and if you look for a well-reviewed one that prioritizes customer service and has clear community guidelines, it should be a safe bet. Parks with active management and good reviews often feel safer and more welcoming for everyone.
Share your itinerary with someone you trust
This is good advice for any road trip, but it can be especially reassuring if you are visiting unfamiliar areas. Share your general route and accommodation details with a trusted friend or family member.
Regular check-ins provide peace of mind. It doesn’t have to be a dramatic thing and it doesn’t need to feel liek you’re a kid checking in with mom and dad; it’s just a simple travel habit that will help.
Trust your instincts
If a situation feels uncomfortable when you are on the road, then you do not owe anyone your time or energy, and you can, and probably should, just move on. One of the biggest benefits of road trips is that you are extremely mobile, so remember you can leave.
You should also think carefully about when and how you choose to share personal information. Some travelers feel comfortable being openly expressive everywhere they go. Others prefer reading the environment first. There is no right approach, only what feels safest and most authentic for you.
Have an amazing trip!
