Op-Ed With my partee-going partner, I am jealous of time I don’t feel jealous with the drug-addicted partee mates of my partner; they’re a means to an end for him. But I am jealous... Frolic LopezMay 8, 2024
Op-Ed For partee-goers, the lying worsens… and starts involving more and more people One of the sad parts with dealing with a partee-goer: when your concern, your love is basically rebuffed by dishonesties that could be harmful.... Frolic LopezApr 1, 2024
Op-Ed That time my partee-going partner’s mom asked: ‘Do you know why he has injection marks?’ You have a partee-going partner, and his mother asks you why he has injection marks. Without pre-empting him to come clean, what do you... Frolic LopezMar 30, 2024
Op-Ed Missing the pre-partee lover, but coming to accept the partee-loving person "My partee-going partner was a different person before he started using, and I miss his pre-partee version. But I have to learn to live... Frolic LopezMar 26, 2024
Op-Ed Partee-ing as a clique… at times of abusers and their enablers Because they're "exclusive", partee groups can be gatherings of abusers. But one hopes that every member of such a group start thinking about their... Frolic LopezMar 1, 2024
Health & Wellness Unique patterns of polysubstance use noted among sexual and gender minorities – study There is no “one size fits all” way to deal with addiction, with sexual and gender minority (SGM) people – as an example –... OutrageMag.com StaffFeb 1, 2024
Op-Ed When with a partee-going lover, lying is par for the course “Lying” and its various forms (e.g. delayed disclosure, lying by omission, selective truth-telling, and so on) is usual among partee goers. And this is... Frolic LopezFeb 1, 2024
Op-Ed When your partner is into partee-ing, suffering is contagious A fervent wish for partee goers to hopefully eventually truly see that even as they hurt themselves, they also hurt those who love them... Frolic LopezJan 13, 2024
Op-Ed Drug is the lure to get together; suffering is the consequence to be faced alone Common particularly in the gay and bisexual community, partee-ing (or using drugs to engage in sex) is a group activity - i.e. drugs are... Frolic LopezDec 20, 2023
Op-Ed Owning up your addiction A friend who started using drugs via sexmates met from Grindr, Romeo, Telegram, Twitter, etc. tries to avoid the blame for what happened to... Frolic LopezSep 28, 2023